Casual sex, an act loved by men, feared by women, enjoyed by almost everyone. Growing up I felt like I needed to consciously make an effort to keep my “number” low. However, J. Cole said it best with the line, “She said she only fucked about 4, 5 n***** so you know you gotta multiply by three.” Thank you for outing us J.
That being said, here’s why I think casual sex is not only awesome, but also slightly necessary.
1. Not to sound like a Tumblr account with only quotes, BUT I was once told the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else. Sleeping with one… or two… or three… guys will not only relieve you of those lonely nights, but eventually you’ll realize your exes D is just a guppy amongst thousands of other fish in the deep blue sea.
2. Practice makes perfect. Some people just aren’t born with the natural talent of a good lay, which is all the more reason to have sex all the time so you can both brush up on your skills in the sheets.
3. Preparation for the real world of dating. If dating actually went the way we like to THINK it should be, well casual sex probably wouldn’t be a thing. It’s 2015 already, lets be honest… first comes baby THEN comes marriage. Or in some cases, first comes drunken sex, THEN comes relationship. The guy you might think is perfect all around might actually not be so perfect in between the sheets. Would you buy a car without test-driving it first? Didn’t think so.
4. Some things last a long time! Casual sex can easily turn your fuck buddy into bae. More often than not eventually SOMEONE catches feelings and ends up having the “what are we” talk. If you two are doing the dirty long enough, and drunk Saturday nights turn into a Sunday morning kind of love, a beautiful relationship is definitely on the horizon! Crazier things have happened.
Disclaimer! Casual sex is not something every girl can handle. Women are notorious for catching feelings after having sex just once with a guy. Proceed with caution.
Also, wrap it before you tap it.