We’re a sucker for romantic dudes, there’s no getting around it.
You know, the bad boy type with a soft side that can low-key write you the love song of our generation? Those guys are pretty hard to come by, but it seems Bazzi may just fit the bill.
If you don’t know him by name (though, you probably should by now), you definitely know the words to his hit song, “Mine.” Earlier this year, just about every girl was captioning their Instagram posts with the lyrics, “You so fuckin’ precious when you smile.”
Yes, even you. Don’t lie.
Since the release of the song that captured hearts of thousands of girls, Bazzi has unveiled a number of other hit singles like, “Beautiful,” and a full album by the name of, “Cosmic,” which have successfully put him on the map as the next heartthrob to watch.
I sat down with the lyrical connoisseur himself to discuss all things behind his music, romantic life, and dating experiences. Check out the exclusive photoshoot and interview below!
So first off, congratulations on the success of “Cosmic!” Most of the songs on the album are either love songs or songs pertaining to love. Are they about one experience or girl in particular? If so, do you think she knows?
It’s definitely not about one girl or one experience. It’s about three years of me being in LA, so it pertains to a lot of different girls, circumstances, and feelings. I think that the girls have a decent idea that it’s about them.
I know you’ve said that you want your work to be honest and come from your own experiences. What would you say are the top 3 most honest songs on the album?
I’d say the top three honest songs on the album are, “Honest,” “Why?,” and “Mirror.”
Have you ever struggled at all when putting these experiences on paper? If so, how did you get past it?
I’ve actually never struggled, it’s never been hard for me to get these words off my chest. It’s almost therapeutic, it feels really natural to go to the studio and write about how I’m feeling and the things I’m going through.
I know you also write for other artists. What makes you want to give a song to someone else instead of keeping it for yourself? How do you differentiate between the two?
Writing for other artists and working on a Bazzi song are completely different – it’s a completely different mindset. I would never just go to the studio to make a Bazzi song, I always have an intention or something I want to say.
Writing for other artists is more careless, because I just write for no reason at all – and if it fits for someone, then it fits. But, if not, it was good for me to be creative and enjoy myself.
3:15 is about not seeing someone anymore or as often as you’d like because things have picked up so rapidly with your career. How do you maneuver dating and meeting girls now that your career has taken off?
I’m not too focused on dating and meeting girls right now. I’m really focused on music and my time is so occupied. But, when the right one comes, it’s easy to just have a friendship and a relationship with someone who genuinely cares about you.
In “Honest,” you talk about a girl doing things to try and get a reaction out of you. What’s the most annoying thing a girl does to try and get a guy’s attention? Is there a crazy story you have of something a girl has done to try and get a reaction out of you?
I think the most annoying thing a girl can do to get attention is try to hurt you. I think that’s really frustrating. If it’s going out with your friends and getting close with them or doing certain things that they know are insecurities of yours – picking at that to try and get something out of you because they want that missing piece back.
What about guys? What are some crazy things you’ve done to get a girl’s reaction?
Same thing. I can’t be hypocritical, we all pick at others’ insecurities and things we know our significant other doesn’t like when we’re in a fight because we want them to react. We want to feel that they care and that we’re important and wanted and that’s why we do those things.
Social media can also play a role in those kind of games and trying to get the attention of someone. Girls will post a lot of the time to attract a guy. Do guys ever do the same?
I think guys do the same thing in posting on social media to get attention. We want to post up like “we’re fine” – I think that’s definitely a unisex thing. When a break-up happens, you want to go on Instagram and post at the beach or post at the club to show everyone you’re fine and unaffected. Social media is our emotion mask – it’s just this fake front that we have but deep down we all know how the heart is feeling.
Ok so, a lot of the songs on the album are also really romanticm aside from talking about some of the experiences you’ve had. What would you say is the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for a girl?
I think just being someone’s friend is important. It’s so under-appreciated to just genuinely give someone your attention, intention, and your care. I think that’s the best thing you can do for someone.
Ever wrote a song for a girl and played it for her?
Yeah I have. Of course (laughs).
Lastly, if your album was the soundtrack for a movie, what would it be and why?
I would hope it’d be the soundtrack for “Interstellar,” because that’s my favorite movie ever. Hans Zimmer killed it, and I’d love to see my songs intertwined into that movie. That’s kind of a dream of mine.
We at Galore are big fans of Jesse Jo Stark and her musical stylings, and we are so excited to know that she’s officially released her first EP, “Dandelion.”
Jesse is currently touring with Sunflower Bean, and somehow still managed to give us this five-track beauty. The songs off the EP could be compared to the vibe of Lana Del Rey mixed with a bit of rock and mystery.
The album was written and produced by Jesse Jo, her guitarist Thomas Hunter, and Dan Taylor (The Heavy). Steve Jones from Sex Pistols (uh, hell yes!) also makes a special appearance on guitar for the lead track of the EP, “Dandelion.”
Basically, a lot of brilliant minds went into the making of this EP.
Jesse Jo has over 1 million Spotify plays, and has certainly earned her place as a powerhouse in rock – opening for acts such as Guns N’ Roses, Jane’s Addiction, and now, Sunflower Bean. The singer is also headlining her own month-long residency at The Echo in Los Angeles.
She has always been obsessed with David Bowie and Fleetwood Mac, and her music represents these artists and their era. Jesse is the future of rock, but always gives a nod to those artists who she has long been inspired by.
When we asked Jesse about the inspiration behind her new single, she made it clear that the dandelion means something to her. “The dandelion flower actually owns two faces. One is a bright, light yellow. The other is a delicate, white puff that’s gentle to the touch. Love, to me, is like a dandelion. Each time it fades away, it grows back to dance with you – time after time.”
You can listen to Jesse’s newest EP on Soundcloud, YouTube, and Spotify, so there’s really no excuse not to make these songs apart of your summer playlist.
Corinne Olympios was, obviously, a standout participant of her season on “The Bachelor.”
To be honest, Corinne’s season was the first and only season of “The Bachelor” that I have ever watched. I was coerced by my cousin to watch the first episode, and after seeing Corinne and her antics, I was surprisingly hooked.
Something about “The Bachelor” had always seemed inauthentic to me – it is, at the end of the day, curated, reality TV. And truly, that’s the beauty of reality TV, and a huge reason why it’s still a thriving TV genre to this day. But, I was never really a fan. Corinne, however, was a different story.
Corinne felt oddly real to me – even though she was portrayed on the show as a conventionally beautiful, blonde, 24-year-old with a nanny (aka, not the most relatable gal). Normally someone like that would possibly be off-putting, but Corinne exuded a confidence, positivity, and honestly, an irony, to the show that intrigued me and kept me watching.
Once Corinne was sent home, that was it for me. Truly. “The Bachelor” was never the same.
Most people agree.
Corinne gained a huge fan base overnight because of her personality on the show, even though many people thought she was “faking her real.” Isn’t that just reality TV, though? I looked past the semi-scripted scenes and was able to see that this girl was really just out here being her damn self, unapologetically. Personally, I feed off of that kind of energy.
If you can convince me that you are authentic while on a completely constructed reality TV show, I’m going to stan. Corinne and her salted cucumbers spoke to me, and most of America that was watching.
This girl was, and is, clearly about being herself. While Corinne has been through a lot of ups and downs since her shot to fame post-Bachelor, she still remains just that – herself. Resilience is not an easy trait to come by.
We sat down with Corinne to discuss her time on the show, the newest season, her new fling (yay!), and her clothing collaboration. Check out the exclusive interview and photoshoot below to see what this Bachelor princess has been up to!
Corinne – you changed “The Bachelor” game forever. I remember yours was literally the only season I ever stuck to watching because you felt so real compared to the other girls. But, I do remember that many people wanted to know – was it all acting, or is that the real Corinne?
That was all real Corinne!
How do you personally think you changed the game on the show?
I was totally myself and didn’t care what the other girls thought of me. I was never actually mean to anyone, though, so I was really a villain.
Why did you sign on for “Bachelor” in the first place?
I had just gotten out of a horrible relationship. I needed a fresh start, and it just worked out perfectly timing-wise.
Ok, so spill. What are the best and worst things about being on/filming “Bachelor?”
Best part is that you can do whatever you want, for the most part. I made life-long friends, and having no phones was my fave! The worst part was the lack of sleep and nap time!
What’s the dumbest thing you’ve seen someone do on a season?
Lick a bowling ball!
What are your thoughts on this season, since the consensus from social media is that it’s not very good?
I think it’s boring! They’re all trying way too hard. Becca is awesome, though!
Last weekend, international retailer, boohoo.com, threw a dope party with entrepreneur, influencer and DJ, Paris Hilton. The party took place at West Hollywood’s Delilah, and was thrown to celebrate the starlet’s newest collection in collaboration with the brand.
Yes, we can confirm that a recreation of her 21st birthday party dress is included in this collection. Now that’s hot.
The boohoo x Paris Hilton collection references a range of iconic trends the pioneer started back in the early 2000s. We all remember Paris’ looks from back in the day, and this collection is basically like taking a trip in her old closet.
The event was the ultimate Paris Hilton-themed party, inspired by a few of the icon’s favorite things and some celebrity culture moments that defined what it means to be famous. Guests enjoyed custom pink cocktails in large martini glasses, dancers sporting the “That’s Hot” bodysuit from the collection, and more.
Paris Hilton arrived in, duh, a pink convertible, and started out with a DJ set of her own. Right after her set, Lil Kim performed live, singing our favorite throwback anthems of hers, including, “Magic Stick,” “The Jump Off,” and “Lighters Up.”
This party obviously had notable attendees, including Paris Jackson, Bachelor alum Nick Viall, recently engaged Jared Haibon and Ashley Iaconetti, Kristina Schulman, WAGS stars Nicole Williams and Draya Michele, Vanderpump Rules stars Tom Sandavol and Lala Kent, and more.
Paris Hilton co-designed a 70 piece collection, including a range of ready-to-wear and swim that basically recreate all of her favorite trends and fashion moments since the turn of the new millennium. The collection includes animal print, slinky metallics, palm prints (inspired by her home town of Beverly Hills), all pink erythannggg (of course), and cheeky slogan pieces that boast her famous mottos like, “That’s Hot.”
Because, why not?
Also, the products all retail for under $100. Not bad.
Check out the collection HERE, and don’t forget to tag boohoo and ya gurl, Paris, when you post those fire fit pics on the gram.
Bawse Kitty is a lifestyle contributor who writes about sex, dating, being a woman, and more. This is her column, Kitty’s Korner.
When Drake dropped the video for “I’m Upset,” (aka “50/50”) it went viral on all social media platforms.
I saw a few clips on Twitter, and recognized a few faces from a TV show I used to love when I was younger. I had to take a walk memory lane and watch some re-runs of “Degrassi: The Next Generation” (luckily, you can watch every episode on YouTube for free).
I took it upon myself to buy a tub of Rum Raisin ice cream and champagne, and then I got busy binging. I really started getting into it during the middle of season 2m when Manny decides she wants to step up her style and take it to the next level.
I feel like a lot of women who watched “Degrassi” resonated with Manny at this moment. I personally resonated with Manny not wanting to be considered cute, adorable, or sweet in the eyes of her crush. I didn’t flat iron my hair until freshman year. I was about 14 years old and girls my age had been getting their hair permed and pressed for years at that time.
I guess some black moms didn’t like to flat iron daily and instead, opted for the braiding route – which was cool until I wanted to become active on the dating scene. I wanted to be hot! Not that braids aren’t hot, but during that era – I needed the straight look. My hair was already long, so flat ironing would just add on to my confidence. I adopted a bow/headband into my everyday wardrobe, and I started to feel a little bit more confident – but, it wasn’t enough.
I went to the mall one weekend, and there was a store called Delia’s that I had already scoped out in catalogs. I decided on a super tight shirt (that wasn’t necessarily cropped, but showed stomach) and super tight skinny jeans. The following Monday at school, I donned my new fit and I started gaining the attention that I had desired and wanted.
A lot of the upperclassmen started to call me a hoe, even though I wasn’t even having sex yet. But baby, that walk, paired with my new clothes, just made me feel a different way – and it showed. Everyone was hating and “slut-shaming” me for no reason, similar to Manny’s female peers at her high school. She dealt with things similarly to me.
I wasted a lot of time on guys during high school, and I also spent a lot of time defending myself. I still find myself doing that to this day. I really advocate for women, girls, and whomever to do whatever they please, as well as wear whatever makes them feel their best.
On the show, “Degrassi,” Manny’s best friend, Emma, started to lowkey judge her off the way she was dressed and the attention she was gaining. I’ve had friendships where girls judged me on the low for being a dancer or for posting twerk videos, but it all comes down to minding your business – as long as nobody is in harm’s way.
Everybody is different, and I loved how Manny really wanted to push the limit to elevate herself and her look. She didn’t care what anyone had to say – she was looking to be comfortable in her skin by any means necessary.
As the seasons progressed Manny went through a lot of hardships. She was exposed with a nude video leaking, her father called her a slut for wanting to get a boob job, and everyone in her school deemed her a hoe for the way she dressed – yet still, she stayed strong and true to herself.
Manny’s resilience was always very admirable to me. While an outfit shouldn’t be the only way for you to boost your confidence (you can work out, try new clubs in your city, spend time with a baller lol) it is a great analogy to use for the moral of the story.
Say or do whatever it is that you want to try and take yourself to the next level. Don’t be afraid to take risks. People will always have something to say no matter what you do, so just enjoy your life!
It’s Summer time (are all of our articles recently based solely on the Summer? We don’t care, Summer is amazing)!
Which means it’s time break out your short shorts, hang out all day with your friends, and “forget” to text guys back (of course, some of us have jobs, but a girl can dream, can’t she?).
I don’t know about you, but my goal is to make this Summer the early 2000s teen rom-com movie of my dreams. And we all know every movie needs a popping soundtrack to set the mood. So, whether you meet a cute boy (or girl), go on an adventure with friends, or stay out a little too late, I’ve got the tunes for every summer shenanigan you get yourself into.
Check it out.
Boy Meets Girl
We all know boys are dangerous, but like, they’re kind of cute, too. And what’s the harm in a little summer romance? Let yourself get caught up in someone new – and listen to these when you do.
ABRA – Fruit
Banks – Lovesick
The Veronicas – 4ever
Jean Deaux – Due to Me
Pink Sand – Cailin Russo
Cruise Control
Get out of town! Pack a bag, pile into the car with your friends, and sing at the top of your lungs. Who cares about the destination, we all know the journey is more fun.
It’s 3 a.m. and you’re nowhere near home. It’s still warm outside, and all you and your friends (or that boy you met earlier) want to do is hang out. Create some chill vibes with these songs, and get ready to get into a little trouble.
Alas, all good things must come to an end. The summer was fun and its time to part ways, but that isn’t always easy. Here’s a few songs to make that end of summer heartbreak a little easier.
Rosehardt – Fall Into You
Ravyn Lenae – Sleep Talking
Lou Val – Mi Amor
Jorja Smith – The One
Madison Beer – HeartLess
Here’s to a crazy and hopefully unforgettable summer!
Sebastian Tribbie, aka You’ve Got No Male, is a professional meme-maker (yes, you heard us right) who lives in New York City.
Sebastian’s goal is to make you laugh, and he’s very good at it. He is also a pro when it comes to nightlife and knowing how to party. All in all, Sebastian is a real good time – even Gucci agrees!
We sat down with Sebastian at The Beverly Hilton Hotel in Los Angeles to talk party do’s and don’ts, why it’s important to at least laugh for 15 seconds a day, and why he is blocked by over 900 people (including some of you favorite celebs)!
Check it out below.
How did you first get started making memes?
I worked in comedy before I did memes full time. I always had a good repertoire of what humor was. I just want to make people laugh.
I saw my father die right in front me when I was 10. I had depression, my mom had depression, all my friends have had depression. If I can make someone laugh for 15 seconds a day and take away from their shitty ass day, week, year, or hour, that’s all I care about.
That’s why I’m defensive. I do not get along with social justice warriors. I’m like, take a fucking joke or unfollow me. It’s so simple – you don’t have to look at my page. I just want to make people laugh, its very simple.
When did you realize you could actually have a career out of making memes?
I was private forever because I had a crazy ex-boyfriend. Since I was private, people wouldn’t be able to tag friends in my memes. I said if I hit 1000 followers being private, I’ll go public, and it just skyrocketed. I did a lot of memes for Gucci.
I made them a custom starter pack and they were so easy to work with. I’ve worked with people in many industries including beverage, liquor, fashion, music, and tech. Everyday when I wake up, I think, “Hmm, who wants to work with me today?”
How did you feel about the Gucci memes, some of which you created?
I loved them. I did the custom starter pack. I got to call Hari Nef, the Regina George of the trans community. She’s so powerful and everyone looks up to her. It was really fun and really easy. I like when it’s easy, because this one musician I once worked for was hell on earth. Indie Rock musicians – you think they’re chill and laid back, but they’re even worse.
If you weren’t making memes what do you think you’d be doing as a career?
I never thought about that, because I’ve done it for so long now. Maybe a writer – I think outside the box. Maybe marketing or advertising – that’s why I hate meme pages that don’t make their own material. I make 14 different types of memes a day sometimes.
Do you get into fights with other meme accounts?
The reason I had to watermark my stuff was because The Fat Jewish took my stuff and gave credit to someone else. If you have a meme account and you don’t make your own memes, you’re like Melanie Trump. It’s crazy to me.
You have no filter when it comes to your work and you’re never afraid to call out anyone out on some bullshit. Have you ever gotten into some Instagram beef over memes you have made?
Oh my gosh, where shall we start? Lena Dunham blocked me – she was the first celebrity to block me. She was in a mermaid suit on the sand, and I said, “when you let a beached whale die.” Before she blocked me, she wrote a three paragraph essay saying “you’re smarter than this, and this is a cheap joke.” I was like, are you kidding me? For all the people to come after me, you? Like no.
Jonathan Cheban and I do not get along. I’ve made so many memes of him. I get so many stories from followers – he’ll send a crazy message to you and then he’ll block you. He wants to be like “you’re a rat face” to everyone from a 12-year-old to a 50-year-old mother of three from Florida. I really want to put out a book and call it, “Jonathan Cheban Blocked Me,” and it’ll be just all the messages. It’ll be a perfect Urban Outfitters book you pick up at the counter.
Ashanti blocked me a few weeks ago. I didn’t know she was relevant.
Taylor Swift – that’s a given. I think Kylie has blocked me. Sometimes they unblock me and block me. I’m blocked by 972 people, but it’s crazy, because I’m not blocked by Anna Kendrick. She is the one I go after the hardest. I think it’s because she’s so desperate to be funny and cool that she wants to be in on the joke.
In your opinion, what’s the best meme you’ve ever made?
It was this woman – I found this photo of her with thigh high boots. Well, you think they’re thigh high boots, but they’re actually two pairs of Calvin Klein jean shorts. They’re not functioning. She just did it for the photo. I said, “When you’re broke as fuck but you want thigh high boots.” Everyone went crazy.
So, you tend to be a lot of people’s spirit animals when it comes to partying, what are your best tips for doing it right?
Never go somewhere with a lot of people. Nightlife is a very tight door, and it’s all about ratio. We were on overheard NY the other day for my party. This yappy girl was coming through and said, “I work at Sotheby’s.” She thought that’s how she’d get in and my doorman goes Applebee’s? I laughed so hard I fell to the ground.
Don’t think you’re entitled and know what you’re getting yourself into. I hate going to NY parties where it makes me question where I am. At least it is not LA. We didn’t drive 45 minutes. We just take a 10 minute Uber and have fun. Enjoy the music. Partying shouldn’t be complicated.
Day drinking is where you get in trouble. I pass out at 9 and miss appointments the next day.
What’s your wildest Uber story?
Singing “Green Light” by Lorde with my friends hanging me outside by my feet. In the video, she’s hanging outside a car and going very fast.
LA nightlife or NY nightlife?
I can’t really judge this because the only place I’ve been in LA this week is Micky’s and The Abbey in West Hollywood. I hate gay bars even though I’m gay. I just like to be sprinkled in. Gays are like cats – you never know when you’re going to say something wrong to make them smack the shit out of you.
What’s the most fun that you’ve had that made you think, “Damn, I made it?”
There’s so many. My friend, Thai, throws really big parties at this amazing bar. It’s a Chinese restaurant during the day, but at night, there are no rules. You can smoke, do drugs, and there are stripper poles. We honor a different pop icon each month, and we get so fucked up behind the DJ booth.
That’s the VIP area, and it’s just 12 of our best friends. I had Rose McGowan and Mischa Barton there one night. It’s sweaty and you’re shirtless and making out with a ton of boys. It’s heaven on earth and that’s the reason we call it that.
What’s next for you?
I’m in LA this week. A few weeks ago, I recorded a documentary feature on influencers called “Public Figure,” by Red Button Film. This lawyer on set sent it to another producer and was like, “This kid has so much potential. He’s hilarious and candid. Doesn’t even try, doesn’t give a fuck.” Then they said, “We are going to fly you out to LA because we want people to meet with you.”
I got my own reality TV show called, “You’ve Got No Male.” I get to terrorize not only New York and LA, but the whole world. My nickname on set was ‘Terror.’ I think I’m laid back, since I’m from Ohio. I’m so loyal to my friends. If you try and come for my friends and I, I will put you on life support in a hospital waiting room with a nuclear bomb attached at your bedside table with receipts. I’m a double Gemini with Aquarius rising.
Women’s-focused body brand, Billie, just launched their newest campaign yesterday, called “Project Body Hair,” with a groundbreaking short film.
It’s really odd that in most razor commercials for women, hair seems to be missing. Like, before they use the razor. Are women hairless sea lions? I think not.
That was the motivator behind Billie’s Project Body Hair. The brand was pretty sick of seeing hairless women in commercials about body hair. That’s why the brand’s mission is to make the world “a little fuzzier” – something that most female shaving brands try to shy away from. Recognizing that female body hair is natural and present is an idea that’s, let’s be honest, still so hard for most people to grasp.
That’s why, for their most recent campaign, they wanted to highlight the reality of female body hair – because, no duh, it exists. Check out the video HERE, it’s phenomenal.
The photos and video were directed and shot by Ashley Armitage, who is well-known for curating projects that feature real women through the female gaze. The music in the video is from talented rapper and known activist, Princess Nokia (we love).
On top of the vide, Billie is also donating photography of women with body hair to the popular stock photo site, Unsplash, for free and public use. This means that there will now be an even more diverse selection of stock images for publications, websites, and more, to use when representing women in a more normal and real way.
Billie is also (yes, there’s more) crowdsourcing images that positively represent women with body hair through an upload feature on its own website for the campaign – projectbodyhair.com. You can also participate by using the hashtag #projectbodyhair on social media.
Body hair is basically having a moment right now. Celebrities and brand alike are banning together to normalize female body hair, and it’s pretty magical. But, there’s still obviously a long way to go. I still hear girls telling their friends they have to shave before hanging out with a guy or before wearing a bathing suit.
The Project Body Hair campaign reflects Billie’s ethos that women should not be expected or talked into into shaving – especially not simply because society’s standards. Women should only shave when, or if, they want to.
And let’s not forget about the damn pink tax. Women have been paying more than men for beauty products, including razors, for forever. Paying more for a razor because it’s pink, or because it looks cute, is ridiculous (something I hope we all can agree on). Billie gets it. They have reasonable prices, and convey great messages that help us as a society move forward.
We should not be ashamed to have body hair, we should not be ashamed by our decision to shave or to not, and we should not have to pay extra to do so.
End of story.
Let’s all try and start spreading some of that body positivity we all preach, and stop pressuring women into thinking that body hair is abnormal. Body hair is truly one of the most normal things in the world. Remember that the next time you’re thinking about telling your bestie to shave her armpits before wearing a tank! Because guess what? She doesn’t have to!
You can find more information on the campaign here. Don’t forget to participate yourself!
There is power in utilizing platforms and privilege to help others, and in constantly reevaluating your own knowledge and ways of thinking. Munroe Bergdorf is someone who conquers both.
Known for her activism (which transcends her own communities) and her modeling career, Munroe has been a consistent force in sharing her own lived experiences with others. She continuously advocates for a more progressive and inclusive world.
UK-based, but internationally known, we caught up with Miss Munroe in NYC to talk about her new documentary, what it’s really like behind the scenes of the beauty industry, and how we can all be better allies and use our platforms to inspire positive changes, socially and politically.
Check out the exclusive photoshoot and interview below!
You’ve been traveling a lot. Do you have a daily beauty routine for morning or night that you’ve been keeping to?
I’ve been trying to wear SPF every single day, just because I read a lot about it. I’m 31 now, so I’m trying to invest in my skin in every way that I can.
I’m drinking a lot more water, because I drink a lot of coffee, so trying to neutralize that. I always take my makeup off. Always. I’m not a skin care freak or anything, but I’m definitely trying to be more active with what I use.
After modeling for and working in the beauty industry, did your opinion change on the industry as a whole?
I think it definitely opened my eyes to the fact that a lot of makeup artists aren’t very good with darker tones. In the early stages of my career I used to get kind of a blanket, one-toned face, which looked a bit like a mask.
My makeup was always either too dark or too light, so it’s nice that now more makeup artists are educated on how to do darker skin by mixing and using different makeup products. But, it’s usually makeup artists who are people of color that know to do that.
What do you think is a step the beauty industry can take in terms of getting greater representation?
Hiring diversely. I think that when you’ve got a workforce that is only one kind of person and they are doing makeup on someone who represents diversity, it doesn’t work. You need to have a workforce that knows how to represent that person.
You’re going to get the best product if your workforce is compiled of men and women, people of different races, people of different sexual orientations, and people of different gender identities. I think that is a positive thing in any workforce, so I think that would be the best way.
Definitely. I also think that goes beyond just hiring models – companies need to hire diversely in the creative department and for positions that make those high-level decisions.
For sure! And, just being aware of different people to include in shoots. It widens your scope and your consciousness of what’s happening in the world.
Exactly. Do you have any cult favorite products that you use or always carry with you?
Micellar water is amazing. Is that how you say it? I never know how to say it (laughs). I love a sheet mask – I’m a sheet mask freak.
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Oh, me too. I do them when I’m on the plane. I look crazy.
Yeah, they’re amazing. I never travel in makeup! I try not to, but, if I do, I take it off on the plane and put a sheet mask on. I love eye masks, as well. The Body Shop has a great one. I’ve been trying to use as many natural products as possible and stay away from companies that test on animals, because I think that’s barbaric and there’s other ways to do things.
Finishing sprays are amazing, and primers, obviously. But, finishing sprays – the ones that kind of give you that dewy sparkle. Because if you’re not mixing foundations, then it can kind of cheat it by giving more dimension to your face.
It’s Pride month currently. Does this Pride feel different from other Pride’s with all that has gone on in the past year?
Yes, I think so. I think that people who aren’t queer are starting to realize why we need Pride. Our rights can be dialed back as fast as we get them, especially with people like Donald Trump at the helm. Even in the UK, just seeing how there’s so much prejudice (but it’s kind of underground), I feel that people are realizing we need Pride to make sure that we keep the rights we have.
What’s something you’re most personally proud of achieving over the course of the past year?
Probably my documentary that just came out in the UK, “What Makes A Woman.” It’s getting U.S. distribution as we speak. Also, posing for Playboy was pretty cool.
Yeah, that is such goals.
It was pretty crazy! It was great to shoot for a magazine that is largely read by cis-gendered, straight men. To then also talk about the issues that black transgender women face, alongside the photos where I just felt really hot, was amazing.
I’ve been following you on Instagram for forever and I see how many people receive so much support from you. Who are the people that you get support from?
Other trans women of color, mainly. I get so much, not really validation, but the feeling that I’m doing something of worth and fulfilling a purpose. Other trans women in the community like Our Lady J, Laverne Cox, and Janet Mock inspire me so much. The way that they use their lived experiences to provide a reference point for other trans women who feel confused or lost is amazing.
When you were filming the documentary and going through surgery, did you know what to expect? Or was it entirely a learning process?
I kind of went into it a little bit blind because I thought I’d freak myself out. I thought it would be best to know the basics and not necessarily think about the fact that my face was going to be taken off of my skull. I just didn’t really think about that.
But, it was worth it. It wasn’t as painful as it looked.
My doctor, Dr. Bart Van De Ven at 2pass Clinic, he’s amazing. He’s an artist. What he does with faces is art. And he’s such a characte, just cause he’s like a crazy scientist – but he’s amazing. I’m so glad I went with him and he really cares about the community, as well. He doesn’t just want to make money from people. He’s really changed my life.
I actually saw you walk in the Gypsy Sport show this past NYFW and it was awesome. How were you approached and were you nervous? Did you practice at all?
No, and that was actually my first runway show. Rio, the designer, dropped me a DM on Instagram and said that they love what I’m about and would really love for me to walk in the show. I thought, obviously I love what they’re about as well, and it just went from there. They flew me over and I ended up being the one to close the show.
I didn’t even know if I was going to be able to make it because I thought it was going to take longer than three weeks for me to recover from surgery, but then it all just healed up and I was on my way.
Do you think you’d walk again for other fashion shows?
Yes! I’ve walked in Teatum Jones (in the UK), and about to walk for a duo in the UK called Art School – they’re very much along the same ethos as Gypsy Sport, so I’m walking in their show this week.
What’s something that’s either a fashion or beauty item that you can immediately put on and feel confident?
I love a denim jacket, you know? I’m a bit of a tomboy. I love a denim jacket and teaming it with a nice top. I love knee high boots, as well – they make me feel really boss. And sunglasses. Big shades.
It seems like people on the Internet really look to you for your opinion on current political and pop culture events. With the royal wedding, were people asking you for your thoughts on it?
People were, and I didn’t say anything when the engagement was announced because I didn’t want to rain on the parade or anything. But, when the wedding rolled around, I was like, okay, enough is enough. This wedding cost 32,000 pounds just on security alone, and the public paid for that.
Just last year we had a huge tower block in the UK, called Grenfell, burn to the ground and 500 people died in that fire. There are people that are still homeless because the government hasn’t shelled out money for it, yet we can afford to redecorate Buckingham Palace, we can afford to renovate Big Ben, and we can pay for a 32 million pound wedding for two people (who really should know better and could maybe delay that until these people have their homes back).
I just feel like it’s hypocritical and it’s really bad when the government is saying they don’t have any money yet, Theresa May, who’s our prime minister, found 1 billion pounds out of nowhere so that she could win the general election. It’s just really disheartening I think, because the working class isn’t thought of, and it’s very similar to New York in that way.
What do you think it will take for people to move from being indifferent to active and taking a stance on these issues?
Exercising some empathy. Care about things that don’t affect you. I think we need to be less selfish on that front. It’s all well and good being involved in activism that does affect you – so if you’re queer, being a queer activist or if you’re disabled being a disabled activist – but, care about things that are outside of your privilege and outside of what you know, as well. Just be there for other communities.
For example, I don’t know what it’s like to be a Muslim in the UK, but I do know what I can do in lending my platform and my privilege to help other people. It’s going to take people who aren’t involved in certain communities to stand up for other people.
Do you ever regret making your personal experiences so public, or do you think it’s a necessary platform to spread message and be a cause for change?
I don’t regret anything. I do think it’s crazy how everything went down, and still goes down, but I don’t regret any of it. I think everything happens for a reason, and I’m just doing what other people have taught me to do. I hope that people can get something from it and that it encourages people to be a bit braver.
A lot of our readers are in the Gen Z age group. What’s the best way for them to speak up and create positive change for issues that they’re passionate about?
I would say read. Read whatever – weather it’s opinion pieces, books, or papers. Just try to expand your consciousness, because it will help you develop your own thoughts, even if you don’t agree with what you’re reading. I also think it’s important to think for yourself. Don’t look too much to other people to provide you with a viewpoint.
Try and develop your own viewpoint and criticize things. Don’t take everything for granted or as verbatim. We’re all human, and even the people that you look up to can get it wrong. I get it wrong, sometimes, and it’s important to just acknowledge that – especially when we live in such a “cancel” culture.
I don’t think anyone should be permanently cancelled because people make mistakes. Although, I think Kanye is definitely cancelled right now, but hopefully he sees the errors of his ways and can do better. I think we are all human and we are all flawed, but endorsing Donald Trump is not something you should be getting away with.
Has there been any representation of the trans community in film, music, or other forms of media that you are proud of and feel is accurate?
I’m really excited about the new Ryan Murphy series, “Pose.” My friend, Our Lady J, is one of the writers, along with Janet Mock. I remember when she first told me about it, I was like, “Oh my gosh, this sounds amazing!” It has the biggest transgender cast in history for a TV show, and the majority of them are trans women of color, so that’s so exciting for me.
I never thought I’d see that in a TV show, so I can’t wait for that. Everybody that’s writing for it is queer, trans, or gender non-conforming, and I think it’s just really authentic.
When you date people, do they recognize you from the Internet? How does fame affect your personal relationships?
I don’t date people that know who I am. I tried it and it’s just not. They’ve got an expectation of me, and they want to talk to me about queer theory. I feel like we can get to that down the line, but I kind of just want to go on a date right now. I get that we have the same political beliefs, and that’s amazing, but it’s very exhausting when you are always talking about these things in a work capacity. You just want to just get to know someone.
Yeah, that’s a lot of emotional labor.
It is. I tend to date other models and stuff like that, because they know the industry and they understand if I need to cancel last minute because of castings and booking jobs, but yeah, I’m seeing a few guys at the moment.
I just got out of a relationship with a woman, and I don’t date that many women. It tends to just be when there’s really a connection, but with guys, it’s more of a sexual thing.
How did you begin modeling? From your first shoot until now, how has your understanding of the industry changed?
I don’t actually know. My first job that I was booked for was for the Lebanese designer, Ziad Ghanem. He wanted me for his shoot and I’d just started transitioning, so I was still very androgynous and skinny. I fit the clothes amazingly, and you couldn’t really tell what my gender identity was – not that it mattered.
But, it was around that time before Andreja Pejic transitioned and she was the new thing. Androgyny was a huge thing then. I didn’t really understand anything about the modeling or beauty industries. My background was in fashion PR. It’s been a learning curve, and I know to speak up if I’m uncomfortable about things.
I think I’m now in a position where people listen to me and take note of what I say, but at the beginning of my career people definitely didn’t. You can very easily be cast as difficult, even though you’re just speaking about something that makes you uncomfortable – which says a lot about the industry.
How do you personally practice self-care?
I always say sex and ice cream. I have a theory. Sex, because of the importance of human touch. I didn’t really realize it until the later end of my twenties. Sex helps to be reminded that you’re human. We can get so inside our heads, especially if you have a mental illness. I think just being able to be present with somebody else, or a group of people, or whatever you’re into, is healing. Being present, sensual, and sexual is really healing for me.
I really only started enjoying sex half way through my twenties, when I started feeling like I was in a body that I could start to recognize as my own. I say ice cream because I had anorexia in university, and the importance of eating and eating to enjoy it is something that I also had to learn. Whenever somebody asks me what I do for self-care, I always say sex and ice cream.
You touched on this a little bit earlier but in what ways is your activism intersectional beyond the trans community and how can someone go about being an ally? Not just for LGBTQ+, but for other marginalized communities such as sex workers, immigrants, and POC.
Intersectional feminism, for me, is critical. Critical as in it’s needed, but also critical in the way that you need to constantly be analyzing everything. All identities are so complex and varied. No one’s the same, so you need to not measure your feminism by somebody else’s.
That’s why reading is so important and making sure that you’re aware of the world, of the different conflicts and situations that different people are exposed to, and making sure that even your friendship group is diverse. You are what you’re exposed to. Be critical of what you know and be critical of what you don’t. Then, open your mind to all thoughts and views.
Officially signed to Wilhelmina Curve at age 14, the now 21-year-old singer and YouTube personality, YUMI, is ready to show the world her talent.
Her new single, “Ego Boost,” released with Dim Mak last week, is a soulful, electronic, R&B track written about a toxic friendship. YUMI’s lyrics carry an emotional honesty that offers a refreshing sense of clarity to her listeners. Worth the listen, Ego Boost can be found here.
We sat down with the model and artist to discuss her new music, her ego boost, and more. Check it out below!
You’re involved in modeling, music, and being a youtube influencer – what’s your favorite part about having all of these outlets at your disposal?
I feel very lucky to have the outlets that I do, and each one is equally important for different reasons. For modeling, the most amazing part is being able to work with incredible teams of talented artists and models around the world, which varies day to day. I’ve been lucky enough to create lasting friendships and connections, and I get to travel!
Music has a deeper meaning for me as an outlet for a wild range of emotions. Most importantly, it has always been a form of therapy, offering me comfort in painful situations when nothing else could.
My favorite thing about YouTube is the voice it has given me and the platform I have created for myself, which I wouldn’t have otherwise had. It’s also amazing to be among a creative community, and to be able to expand a dialogue and interact with people I might not otherwise be able to.
How did you get started doing so many different things?
My family has an incredible drive to succeed, and I feel that’s built into my system. I’ve always had a long list of things I’m passionate about, but by pursuing them at different stages of my life, each one has had its own space to incubate, and I feel lucky now that they are all lining up. Everything I’ve done has led me to this moment.
Do any them come more naturally to you than others?
Music has been a constant for as long as I can remember, like giving concerts for my family as a 7-year-old. Of course, there are ups and downs, but being creative musically has always felt natural.
How has your relationship with your body changed over the years?
My relationship with my body has done a complete 180. Starting in middle school, I loathed the way I looked, and even at my skinniest I never felt like it wasn’t enough. I was obsessed with weight goals, thinking that each time I met one, I would be happy with myself and be able to wear what I wanted.
It took a lot of self work, but when I finally let go of my impossible standards, I finally felt free, and I radiated happiness. When you’re in a toxic mindset for a long time, it’s impossible to know how bad it has become, because it changes your definition of normal. I feel grateful for the normal I have created for myself now.
Did being signed to Wilhelmina curve change your mindset at all? How so?
When Wilhelmina signed me as a curve model at age 14, the body inclusive industry was tiny. They have not only been supportive of growing the diversity of the industry, but also personally supportive in many stages of my life. Most notably at 16, when I held impossible standards for myself, it was my agents who helped me realize that all sizes are beautiful and mine was no exception.
For anyone struggling with their relationship with their body, do you have any advice to overcome that?
The most important advice I could ever give would be that no one’s journey will be perfect, and we all have our days when we feel less-than. I probably have more bad days than good, but it’s how we react to those situations and combat those thoughts that make the difference.
The way we talk to ourselves can change our whole mindset, and improve how we view ourselves. My confidence comes from looking in the mirror and telling myself that I am beautiful, even when I don’t feel like it, until I do.
How did you discover your musical talent?
I first started singing lessons in middle school, but even after 2 years, I couldn’t hear a difference. My voice was nasally in general, and breathing out of my nose was hard, but I never knew why and thought it was normal. It wasn’t until I had it checked by a doctor that I found out I had enlarged adenoids blocking my airflow, and when I had those (and my tonsils!) removed, my voice all of a sudden was free, and the years of singing lessons finally applied.
What is “Ego Boost” about?
I wrote “Ego Boost” about a toxic relationship my best friend was in at the time, when the guy she was seeing was also still involved with his ex. I naturally draw a lot of inspiration from my friends and my world when writing, and even though I have never had a boyfriend, I feel like I really experienced the pain and frustration with her.
What do you want people to take away from your forthcoming EP?
This EP is an intro to who I am as an artist. I would love for people to be able to use my music as an inspiration or an outlet, or as a tool for anything they need in their life.
Your family tree is pretty INSANE – what’s your favorite part about having such a multitalented fam? How did it influence you?
I am so lucky to have the family I do. I’ve only understood the impact my grandfather left on the world as I’ve gotten older, like the significance of Benihana as a global restaurant chain. I always thought that his work ethic and successes were a normal life standard, especially as his children have all followed in his footsteps by achieving their dreams in full force – never giving up and never stopping, even after they’ve ‘made it.’
My uncle Steve has also been a huge role model to me, and it’s incredibly to have been taken under his wing this past year, signing me to his label and making time for me in his insanely busy schedule whenever I need it. He is the most genuine, big-hearted human being and seeing him stay true to that through all his fame and success has been the biggest inspiration to me on my own path.
What are some of your talents/hobbies/etc other than modeling and music?
I love the process of making YouTube videos, and having an open dialogue where I can share my life digitally has been both fun and intimate. I also love fashion and being able to incorporate it into all my projects and my daily life, but I would love to have my own line or collaboration some day. Streetwear and modern styles are amazing, but it’s almost impossible to find things that fit me as a plus size girl. I’d love to have a store where people of any size could find things without compromising on style.
Who are your main musical inspirations?
I love Syd, The Internet, Billie Eilish, Soulection, Sabrina Claudio, Honne, and a lot of other talented artists in the alternative R&B genre. I’ve always been inspired by finding and listening to underground artists. There are so many talented undiscovered producers with small followings, it feels like a treasure hunt. I can’t even remember the last time I listened to the radio.
What’s your favorite album of all time?
I tend to only listen to individual songs from a huge array of artists, and finding a whole album I love is extremely rare. Right now that rare album is Honne’s “Warm on a Cold Night.”
You’ve heard of honeydew, now get ready for @honeydon.t – the conceptual makeup Instagram that you didn’t know you needed (but that you 100%, without a doubt, most certainly need).
Meet Helen Marie, a 19 year old student from Colombus, OH who is here to declare makeup as a form of art and self-expression in its own right. Marie first got her start doing makeup in early high school, and has since been executing truly daring, creative, out-of-the-box looks.
Not only do Marie’s looks encourage us to ditch our comfort zones, they also urge us to challenge the way makeup is often dismissed in the realm of art, and to view makeup as something more than just aesthetic enhancement.
Marie may be young, but she isn’t about to let society’s conventions limit her artistic liberty. We spoke with the student and artist about crystal tears, maintaining individuality, and glitter gloss.
When did you begin experimenting with makeup? What inspired you to do so?
I began using makeup in high school, started with a felt eyeliner and that was it!
I honestly just felt like my face was kind of a blank canvas, and I wanted to paint it. I’ve always been artistically inclined, so my liner was on point and everyone told me. I guess I was like, “Hmm, maybe I’m not bad at this. Let me try some fun stuff.”
I started experimenting with glitter, eye gloss, colored mascara and the rest! This was before I had an Instagram, so I wasn’t really sure what was trendy: but I knew what I liked!
Makeup for me is usually just to compliment whatever craft store goodies I have glued to my face! I do love makeup of course, but I think makeup itself is limiting when it comes to texture.
On an average day, I’m serving Sephora. On a good day, I’m serving Joann Crafts.
My inspiration is the world around me and most of all, myself. It sounds stupid but in reality most of my looks are based off of things I see, and my brain immediately thinking about how can it be served. Obviously I’m still inspired by other artists, but there is no one person, one aesthetic, to whom I can accredit my “art.”
Definitely conceptual! I love seeing looks based off of something.
And even before conventional makeup, I love things that just look dope, no concept, no glam, just fun to look at. I don’t see the locals getting out of the “IG makeup” anytime soon in reality, but I do see this type of conceptual makeup getting mainstream attention. My crystals tears look was all over Tumblr and on several makeup pages, but mostly on art pages and that’s what I want; is this to be seen as an art, not just as cosmetics.
My go-to is super glowy, heavily blushed skin with some sort of graphic eye. My brows don’t get almost any attention anymore because I’ve began to embrace my natural nonexistent brows and I’m loving it. Lips are the 90s way with a almost black crisp lip line, and some glitter gloss.
What are your favorite products?
Mac cream blushes are a dream! I Love L’Oréal telescopic mascara. And I’m a lip gloss phonetic: Glossier, L’Oréal, tbh any lip gloss as long as my lips look drenched!
Where do you get those little face jewels you rock so well?
Joann and Michael’s! They’re Swarovski so they’re very high shine, I only get them on sale though, obviously.
I do watch YouTube, but nothing makeup related. I feel like makeup on YouTube is just so boring! Like, it’s the same tutorial over and over and over just with a different Morphe palette – like, no thanks (laughs)!
But, I love podcasts, comedy and commentary videos, (Cody Ko, Danny Gonzalez, Drew Gooden, and Noel Miller). I will be on YouTube in the coming weeks and will be doing a bit of makeup related stuff but mostly just making good videos of some sort.
I honestly just want to inspire people. I do want to be an artist for sure because art is such an important outlet and can be life changing. But, it’s not really my primary goal anymore. I love doing my thing on the ‘Gram, but I really just want to travel and help children and adopt a bunch on orphans and turn my house into the coolest day care on the block.
If we even tried to confine Paris Hilton to some all-encompassing title, we’d literally run out of hyphens.
When the two-time Galore cover girl isn’t DJing, hosting, designing accessories, or formulating one of her now 24 (count ’em) perfumes, she’s — oh right, working on her other business ventures.
In an interview with Galore in 2016, Paris all but ran out of breath while reciting her repertoire. “I have 21 Fragrances, a handbag line, sunglasses, shoes, make up, swimwear, lingerie, clothing, children’s clothes, and clothes for animals,” she told Galore. Shee also just launched a collab with boohoo.com.
And now, thanks to Pro D.N.A., we can now add skin care to that extensive list.
That’s right, Pro D.N.A., a line of luxury preventative skincare, is Paris Hilton’s latest corporate baby – and it makes perfect sense. I mean, while her genetics are damn near perfection, even she sees the value in preventative skincare. In fact, the heiress has repeatedly emphasized the importance of skincare over the years.
In an interview with Galore last year, she says the best beauty advice she’s ever gotten was “from my mom from when I was a teenager. My friends used to always lay out in the sun, and my mom would be like, ‘Don’t do that. You’re going to ruin your skin.’ I listened to her and I’m so glad I did.”
When we’d asked if she’d ever gotten Botox to help achieve her astound complexion, she merely replied, “I’m very proud that I am all natural and have never had anything done. I am very happy with myself. But I don’t judge others. People should do whatever makes them feel happy. It’s just not something I’ve ever wanted to do.”
Of course, Paris has in fact dipped her perfectly pedicured toes in the cosmetic waters already: she launched her makeup line, Paris Hilton Cosmetics, in 2015.
But consider this skincare line a more elaborate sneak peak into the heiress’s elaborate beauty regimen. It’s been said that Paris spends upwards of two hours on skincare each day, and not for nothing.
Not only does Pro D.N.A. aim to actively better one’s skin, it also aims to minimize future damage.
Though the heiress may not share this sentiment with regard to her wardrobe or manner, Paris gets that when it comes to skincare, less is more. The line is rather refined, featuring just four essential products: a dual acting cleansing gel (featuring but not limited to Caviar Lime), eye cream that lifts and firms the skin, facial cream, and a recovery serum. That’s right, four products that pack a lot of punch.
With the launch of this new skincare line and many of Paris’ other projects still booming, there’s literally zero sign of her slowing down anytime soon.
When asked if she’ll ever retire, she told Galore, “I don’t think so. I feel so blessed and lucky that I get to do so many things that I love and am passionate about. Success is something that fulfills me in life and I want to continue expanding and growing my brand for many years to come.”
We can’t wait to see what this queen pursues next: in the meantime, the new line of products is available for sale here. Your Summer skin will thank you.
Last night, Diesel and Scott Lipps hosted a fabulous viewing party to celebrate the photo exhibition called, “Rocks Not Dead.” Everyone from rock royalty to young Hollywood to new rappers were in attendance!
Everyone was there to be the first bunch to preview Scott Lipps’ photography exhibition that features photos of Courtney Love, Anthony Kiedis, The Kills, Brandon Boyd, Wild Belle, Cassie, James Goldstein, Keanu Reeves, and Matt Sorum.
Notable attendees were Courtney Love, Anthony Kiedis, Ross Butler (“Riverdale”), Violet Benson (@daddyissues), Rola, Sevyn Streeter, Randy Jackson, Brandon Boyd, Lil’ Twist, Jessica Serfaty, Lexi Pantera, and so many more.
Aka, it was obviously an amazing turnout and an even more amazing party.
Diesel and Scott Lipps have a long-standing relationship, so it was only natural for the two to pair up for the party of the week. Particularly, Scott love the brands’ commitment to supporting local talent.
“I am so excited to have partnered with Diesel and Stefano for this event. I have been a friend of the brand for a long time, and love how they are supporting talent. Putting together all the shots of these amazing celebrities has been so incredibly inspiring and seeing the exhibit come to fruition has been fantastic,” says Scott.
Diesel feels that it is important to acknowledge the creative community in LA, so being a part of this collaboration is a no brainer to the brand.
“Scott has always been a creative talent and Diesel is always looking to support creativity. We are glad to have supported his first exhibition and hope for this to only be the first of many artistic successes for him,” says Stefano Rosso, the CEO of Diesel in North America.
Better yet, a portion of the proceeds of any photography sold from the show will be given to Adopt The Arts charity.
Right now, for many freshly 20-year-olds, life would consist of going to college, spending the long nights with your closest friends, and starting summer internships. But, not for NAAZ.
NAAZ was rejected from college, which actually pushed her to build a burgeoning music career on the Internet – without the help of a record label and/or a studio (showing that it can be done).
With a mind of a PhD grad and an aura of Tove Lo, the multi-talented, Kurdish, Holland-born producer, singer, and songwriter’s (whew, mouthful!) unconventional journey to stardom is bound to make heads turn – one song at a time.
We catch up with NAAZ about how she recorded music from her bedroom, gender equality, and the one unexpected gig that changed her life.
Jumper: Madison Beer x Missguided, Trousers: Paradis, Trainers: Hogan, Rings: Rathel Wolf
You’ve established yourself as a pop singer, songwriter, and producer. As a musician, why did you choose pop as your main genre? Who are your role models?
It didn’t happen very purposely – me doing pop. I listen to literally all kinds of music and just wanted to create something that has a little bit of everything I like, while at the same time having bits of myself in it. I wanted to make music that is perfectly curated for my own taste.
I realized I preferred the pop structure of a song over other genres after listening to Tove Lo’s music. She made music completely her own, but because it had the basic pop structure, it felt accessible and fun to me. It wasn’t straight forward and you couldn’t guess what would happen next in the song except for the structure. It’s nice to have something to hang on to while still being surprised.
You count real-life events from your friends’ life (i.e. the loss of their grandparents) as inspirations of your songs. What made you want to tell their stories through music?
I’m always looking for new impulses and always trying to find something new to make me feel a little more. There’s only so much you can experience on your own at a certain age. Sometimes I would just get bored of my own life, because there wasn’t much happening. So, I created my own little world. I would even plan all day on what I wanted to dream at night, and go to bed early in hopes of it actually happening. Often, it did! Dreaming was my favorite part of the day.
Eventually, I realized I didn’t have to live only through myself, but I could also take a peek inside other people their lives. I guess it’s a form of learning empathy, as well. That’s why I started writing about other people’s experiences. Now, my life is quite exciting, so I write about myself. It’s odd and I feel like I’m more lost now than ever.
The older you get the more little you seem to actually know about yourself as your world is getting bigger by the minute. I try to hang on to the child like excitement of discovering things, so it won’t feel too scary when I’m redefining myself.
T-shirt: Moschino at The Hut, Long sleeve knit: Paul and Joe, Trousers: Paul and Joe, Trainers: Superga x Charlotte Simone
While most musicians would rent a studio to make their song, you recorded everything in your bedroom. How did the idea of recording in your bedroom happen?
I just didn’t have much choice – limitations only widen my horizons. Limitations forced me to find new ways to do the same things. I wasn’t allowed to go to the studio, so I created a situation where that wouldn’t stop me from what I wanted to do.
At the same time, many artists don’t get to start off in studios, because of a lack of money, connections in the game, or anything else. It’s really not so odd to start off in your room, but I applaud the people who do. I feel like it shows off your willpower.
What surprises me is that before you uploaded any of your songs on the Internet, your parents didn’t want you to pursue music as a career option. How were you able to work around your ambition without offending them?
It took years and years of baby steps and major fights. Also, kind of living in compromise – like being in a half-happy state. Always putting bits of yourself aside to try to achieve something you don’t even know what you’ll ever really get. Somehow, it always felt worth it, but I don’t remember ever thinking about giving up honestly.
I would just make the best of my situation – study hard at school and get good grades, teach myself how to make music with as little as I had, put it on the internet in secret, hustle my way into people and their inboxes, and then, eventually, I met my current manager, a Kurdish man.
That did a lot, because over a course of about three years, my parents started trusting him more and more. When I didn’t get accepted into college, I had a year to prove I could do music. Then, my song “Words” came along and my life changed.
Jumper: Marleyne, Trousers: Nico Panda
Your EP, “Bits of NAAZ,” feels so personal, yet your lyrics are so relatable. What did you learn about yourself when you wrote each song?
Every song was therapy – most of the topics were things I couldn’t really find people to talk to about. As if no one really understood it. I wanted to be my own friend and record my advice to myself into music. Every time I need a wake up call, I listen to my own music. I know best what I need to hear to feel better. In a way, it’s self-care at its finest. I’m glad it helps other people out, too.
Compared to most pop artists, you’ve got a diverse cast in your music videos (e.g. “Loving Love,” and “As Fun“). Where did you find the actors? Was diversity something you intended to illustrate when you made the videos?
I find them on the Internet. It’s a beautiful place for artists like me (kind of my birth place if you think about it). Honestly, I just want to show how people of all kinds of places can be in one spot at the same time and just respectfully be present along each other. They don’t need to talk or connect. Just “be” together and accept each other as we are. That’s what I hope to portray.
Top: Ashley Williams. Trousers: Aries. Trainers: Misguided, Rings: Rathel Wolf
You count Kanye West as one of your favorite musicians. Despite his problematic stance on politics, do you believe that artists should have the privilege to express their political opinions?
Artists are just humans like everyone else, we all should have the “privilege” to express our opinions on anything I feel. I don’t even think it should be considered a “privilege,” it should just be common courtesy in my opinion. Other than that, I hardly focus on what artists do outside of their music. I’m that type of listener. Not to be ignorant, but, I just don’t really care that much.
You have lived in the Netherlands all your life, yet you are raised in a Kurdish Muslim household. Since the majority of Western news outlets (tend to) misconstrue your culture and religion, what is the biggest misconception you’ve encountered?
That it’s a ‘girls’ thing. My brother, who is also a musician, went through way worse than me. He already took some falls for me before my era came. In my family, there’s not much sexism, and I’m proud of that – my brothers and I mostly get treated equally. There’s certain things I’m not allowed to do, unlike them, because I’m a female.
But, I think it’s with good intentions – even though I don’t agree with it. We live in a world where females have to deal with sexual intimidation a bit more than men, even though men do, too. I think that’s the only reason why there’s a little more protection over girls than boys – in my family at least.
Recently, you’ve scored an opening slot for Arcade Fire. How did that go, and what did you anticipate?
Well, my manager didn’t tell me at all because he didn’t want to get my hopes up. One day, he called me and said that we needed to move our Paris show that fell on the same day. I felt a bit sad about that and asked why, which he simply answered, “Because you’re opening for Arcade Fire in a stadium in your hometown.” Then, I screamed so loud I don’t even remember anymore what happened after (laughs).
Apart from Arcade Fire, who would you love to be on tour with?
Kanye, Lorde, Charli XCX, Tove Lo – so many people honestly.
Lastly, if there’s a cause that you want to help, what will it be?
Equality between boys and girls while they’re growing up. I feel like it does a lot to a child’s mind to be made to believe certain toys or clothes or actions are only meant for one gender only.
Manny Jay is a New York-born and Los Angeles-based wardrobe stylist and creative director, and he’s fully inspired by Koreatown.
Dress: Maison The Faux, Heels: Philipp Plein, Hat: Eugenia Kim, Glasses: Quay
The stylist teamed up with photographer, Emilynn Rose, and model, Tashi Rodriguez, to put together a modern, Koreatown-inspired editorial, called “She’s On The Go.”
Tashi is taking over this historic Los Angeles neighborhood in grace and style!
Dress: Maison The Faux, Jeans: Nasty Gal, Sneakers: Nike, Bra: Agent Provocateur
In this fashion editorial, Manny wanted to tell the story of a young fashionista taking on the streets of Koreatown.
“Koreatown is becoming so diverse with many different cultures intertwining. I wanted to marry both NYC fashion and the aesthetic of the neighborhood. From shopping, to getting her hair done – Tashi is taking over,” explains Manny.
A star is not born with the help of a famous man or a record label, but rather faith. Almost like a real life version of “Rock of Ages,” up-and-coming country gospel singer, Jenn Bostic, knows what it’s like to nearly give up on her dream.
Fiercely independent, feisty, and completely unapologetic about her past struggles with the music industry, Bostic possesses the no BS authenticity that isn’t peddled by publicists and label heads. Never too old to be a pop star, her refreshing approach to music stardom earned her an unexpected fanbase outside of Nashville. And also, who can’t forget about that raspy Sheryl Crow-esque voice?
We chat about “Faint of Heart” (exclusively premiered for us), abuse in the music industry, and why it’s never OK to rush into marriage too quickly.
“Faint of Heart” draws upon the struggles of ageism, having to hold back your marriage, career conflicts, and dealing with label bosses who try to force you into a box. What made you want to write about your struggles as an independent artist?
I write what I know. As an artist, it is my hope that the songs I bring into this world will encourage people and empower them to believe they can overcome the obstacles they are facing. In order to do that, I have to be honest and vulnerable. I have been an entrepreneur and an independent artist for the last decade, and it’s an industry, like many others, that needs to look professional on social media and sound like something amazing is happening all the time.
I guess I figured that if I was struggling with some of these very real questions, I couldn’t be the only one. The day I wrote “Faint of Heart,” I sat at the piano for eight hours and convinced myself that every idea I was coming up with was terrible. Finally, I locked the studio door and decided that I wasn’t leaving until I had written a song.
“Faint of Heart” came tearfully rushing out of me. I’m not sure I had even started processing some of these feelings until after the song was written. Music has always been my therapy and by sharing my own challenges with the world, the music has somehow given people permission to open up about their own.
As a woman, I absolutely feel your struggle as we constantly question our pursuit for ambition. Were there any specific moments that almost made you quit?
Disappointment has brought me close to throwing in the towel more times than I care to admit. I have a habit of getting my hopes up, and sometimes things don’t work out the way I picture them. When you’re chasing a dream, it’s so easy to put the weight of the world on an opportunity, and when it doesn’t happen, it can feel like the end of the world.
I have gotten better at removing some drama from this internal struggle, because at the end of the day, I believe chasing this dream is my purpose. Thankfully, each of these experiences makes me a little stronger and humbles my heart for the better.
Although the music industry celebrates female empowerment, it continues to hold women back, as most of them can’t break their contract from the label, speak up against abuse, and/or worry about not being able to get work. How do you feel about this and how do you plan on improving the situation?
I have never been signed to a record label, and although it has been a dream of mine, hearing stories of abuse and contracts that won’t break have made me really sad for those involved. It has also made me incredibly grateful to have remained independent all these years.
With all the resources at our fingertips nowadays, I think it’s empowering for women, or any artist for that matter, to know that they don’t need those relationships to make a living playing music. I have had the opportunity to mentor a few young artists who have reached out on social media over the years, and I will continue to encourage them to understand that they are capable of doing so much on their own.
Given that you experienced a handful of challenges, how were you able to overcome them?
Challenges are going to come, but I believe it is what we do with those challenges that make us who we are. Faith plays a very important role in my life and trusting in God’s plan for my life has given me the strength and the hope to overcome even some the most difficult struggles.
What’s surprising is that you got a handful of attention in UK and Ireland compared to Nashville. When did you realize that you had a fanbase in these countries? Was it something you anticipated?
About six years ago, my song, “Jealous of the Angels,” co-written with Jimmy Fortune and Zach Runquist, in memory of my late father, was played on a radio station called Smooth Radio in the UK. A fan had found the song on YouTube and sent it to the station without my knowledge. I found out on Twitter, and soon after, received a message from the station as it became one of the top requested songs that week.
Shortly after, the song was playlisted on BBC Radio 2, the most listened to radio station in Europe. I performed the song on BBC Breakfast, and it went #1 on the iTunes singer/songwriter chart. I have been performing in the UK a few times each year ever since, and this past year I was named “International Touring Artist of the Year” at the British Country Music Awards. It was an incredible unexpected blessing and I feel blessed to get to travel overseas to play my music.
Compared to most country singers, you incorporate your gospel roots. Why does gospel inspire you? How do you manage to maintain your faith in an extremely secular industry?
I grew up singing in church and I wouldn’t have an ounce of talent if God hadn’t given it to me. Bringing hope, peace, love and joy into this world through the music I create is why I believe I am on this earth. I’ll admit that there has been some pushback from both the industry and fans, but the positive conversations far outweigh the negative. God continues to open new doors around the world and being open about my faith hasn’t ever been a challenge for me.
Since you mentioned that you’re married in “Faint of Heart,” what are your secrets to keeping your marriage alive?
My husband is an amazing man. We have very different passions, but we take an interest in what is important to the other and encourage one another daily. We don’t hold each other back from opportunities or experiences, and we have learned to be open in our communication and expectations. I believe it is important to love your spouse for who they are and not try to change them into someone they are not.
Our generation doesn’t prioritize marriage compared to our parents’ generation, but we still have the desire to settle down. What is your advice for anyone who feels scared to commit and/or want to rush into marriage?
Forever is a long timem and I wouldn’t advise anyone to rush into marriage. However, for those who might feel scared to commit, my advice would be to understand that marriage does take work. However, if both people are willing to work on the marriage in the best and worst of times, you have a partner for life. I had it in my head that I wouldn’t be married until I was 35.
I haven’t reached that age yet and I’ve been married for seven years. While it wasn’t in my initial plan to have a husband in my twenties, I can’t imagine those years of life without him in it. He challenges me, loves me unconditionally, and makes me better.
You’ve got an upcoming UK tour and it looks super exciting! Which tourist landmarks do you want to take your husband to and what do you want to add in your tour rider when you go there?
Thanks so much! I just finished a three week tour of the UK and I am back over here for a festival now. A few years ago, my husband and I ran the London marathon together and saw most of the sights in London during the run.
We also visited Paris and Belfast during that time, which are two places I was dying to take him. I’m really grateful for the time we do get together and the opportunity to share the cities and friends I’ve made with him across the pond.
El Capitan Canyon, located 20 miles north of Santa Barbara, is the glamping retreat you will want to take this summer.
A nature resort nestled on the seaside and surrounded by 300 acres of land, it’s the obvious choice for anyone who is dying to unplug, or reconnect with fabulous Mother Earth.
The resort describes it as “comfort without over-indulgence,” which sounds really appealing – especially when I feel like most resorts are over-done and excessive.
For a nature resort, especially, anything too glam might seem a little delusional. El Capitan Canyon, however, is famous throughout California for allowing guests to be one with nature while not having to sacrifice cleanliness or comfort.
If you’re looking for the perfect escape without having to travel very far, head to El Capitan Canyon for an amazing stay. We can’t recommend this celeb-faved spot enough.
We sat down with Kendra Summers from El Capitan Canyon to discuss the resort’s accommodations, girls trips, the animals on-site, and more. Check it out below!
What is the meaning of ‘glamping’ at El Capitan Canyon? What are the accommodation options?
The term ‘glamping’ can be interpreted in so many ways – from luxury accommodations to high quality chocolate in your s’mores, it is what you choose to make it. When we first introduced the cabins and safari tents on our grounds in 2001, we used the term ‘nature lodging,’ which is exactly what we offer.
We give guests comfortable lodging immersed in nature. While most people enjoy and value their time in natural surroundings, the idea of sleeping in a sleeping bag on the ground miles from a hot shower does not appeal to all. We wanted to provide an alternative option. Our accommodations range from our more rustic safari tents to the fun new adventure yurts and most commonly booked, our cedar cabins.
The cedar cabins include your own kitchenette with a coffee maker, refrigerator, and private restroom – some with luxurious soaking bathtubs.
5 things that will make any girls trip at ECC complete:
1. Good food – try one of our Signature BBQ Kits.
2. Good wine.
3. Campfire – our staff will help light your fire if you need.
4. Massages at our Creekside spa.
5. Your girls!
What is the best sandwich at the Canyon Market or the best meal that any campgoer should try during their stay?
The tri-tip BBQ Kits are the most popular “do it yourself’ meal at the Canyon Market. Our signature Canyon BBQ Kits include your prepared, but uncooked, full meal with all the grill tools and fixins’ for a delicious BBQ meal. We deliver your kit with a bundle of firewood to cook over your own open grill. This also includes a s’mores kit with instructions for the perfect s’more.
If you’d rather have someone prepare your meal for you, the Canyon Market has breakfast, lunch, and dinner options everyday, including a great breakfast burrito and full espresso bar.
Tell us more about the animals and fur friends you get to interact with! I heard you can walk with llamas.
The Canyon is a natural nature corridor and water source for the local wildlife which includes deer, raccoons, bobcat, quail, red-headed woodpeckers, and skunks. On our grounds, we are also home to a llama heard as well as goats, heritage sheep, and one little miniature donkey, who helps to look after the baby goats.
We obviously love a good wine. What wine do you have on site that will complete any girl’s night in the canyon?
We have an excellent local wine selection available in the Canyon Market. As we are only a short 25 minutes south of the famed Santa Ynez Wine country (sideways with Sandra Oh), we are quite spoiled with the variety of high-end Pinot Noirs.
ECC is perfect for us girls who want to curate the perfect fomo weekend without spending too much and without leaving the state. What spots do you recommend on site for the perfect selfie moments?
Cabin, tent, or yurt selfies are what I see the most often. Campfire selfies, hiking selfies, sycamore or oak tree selfies, are also really great. The ultimate El Capitan Canyon selfie would be with a llama or goat and the ocean view behind you.
ThunderVoice Hat Co. hats are extremely artful – they carry that classic, western look, mixed with a modern and structural vibe.
The hats can be worn on almost any occasion, and I think that’s what makes the brand so awesome. Started by a Navajo and Totonoc artist from Mexico, the brand is inspired by his native culture, he says. The artist believes strongly in working among cultures and the idea of “we,” but he still makes sure to include other native artists (of all industries) in all of his galleries, shows, and online platforms.
Check out our exclusive interview below with the man behind these brilliants hats!
What is the motivation behind your brand and the art of what you do?
A lot of my motivation comes from my culture. I am Navajo and Totonoc (from Mexico). I represent both sides of the border. Throughout the years, my people have gone through significant changes due to the removal and assimilation process. Since that time, its been a battle to salvage parts of our culture.
My father and mother played a significant roll in passing on to us wilderness survival and awareness skills. With that, came many parts of the foundation of my culture. I grew up most of my life in Nature; living off the land and teaching youth. So, my fashion and art are the outcome of this way of life. I learned to lived between two worlds. This created a new, contemporary blend of the ancient and modern.
What does ThunderVoice Hat Co. provide to the community?
Around 80% of the income generated within the US tribes is through the arts. Painting, basketry, pottery, jewelry, and textiles. For the past few years, I have started galleries, online platforms, and curated shows. Each time, I include the best artists in the native community.
I like to showcase what the new and old generations have to offer. It is beautiful. With the ZOHI Gallery experience, we had dances, spoken word, music performances, DJ’s, and even a fashion show including the top native fashion designers from 5 different regions.
Why is it so important that this generation finds our own solutions to the things that need fixing?
Over the past few years, I’ve attended and engaged with movements including Oak Flats, Standing Rock, and Bear’s Ears. Emerging from the wilderness, I dove into the native community. I quickly found out how many tribes share the same story.
I realized that the most important aspect of awareness is creating and focusing on solutions, art had a way of reaching people with this message. To be able to work together no matter the color of your skin is what will truly make a difference.
What has working between cultures helped your team achieve?
Throughout my life, my parents accepted anyone of any culture. We loved and shared with them as if they were family. This helped me experience the basic truth of working together as “we.”
This year marks the 8th birthday of Full Moon Fest, an annual music festival hosted by MATTE Projects, an NYC-based creative agency and entertainment company.
But Full Moon Fest isn’t just any other music festival. You can rave guilt-free knowing that Full Moon Fest partnered with The Surfrider Foundation to donate $1 from every ticket sale to the effort to preserve our world’s oceans. You win, the ocean wins. Very cool. But wait, there’s more. Full Moon Fest also partnered with WeCycle to compost all of the festival’s waste on site, with a commitment to producing zero-waste.
The massive party was held at The Knockdown Center in Brooklyn, which is known for both its epic indoor and outdoor spaces:
The huge venue was transformed into an urban jungle over the course of the festival, as you can see. The three stages were Jungle Ruins, The Solaar Stage and of course, the Full Moon Stage. Basically, there was no shortage of sound, and there were tons of artists and DJs (around 20, to be precise) which truly offered something for everyone. Some of the headliners included Rechulski, Jackmaster, Mira and others:
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But of course, even though we come to a music festival for the music, we stay for the fashion. Music festivals in New York are really cool for that reason: festival fashion here is sort of like a hybrid of bohemian and edgy. Here’s what I mean:
It’s amazing being a womxn – we are strong, beautiful, intelligent, powerful, and tbh, the shit.
We got to ask 9 womxn who inspire us what quote they would use to describe their badass selves. It’s always such a gorgeous thing to see and hear women being confident in who they are. We hope these ladies can inspire you to walk a little taller today, too!
Check out the exclusive photoshoot and inspiring quotes below! And don’t forget, you are WOMXN, and you are BADASS!
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